WHEW, I have some new stuff to talk about, nothing extra special but uber happy to have em in my collection.

First up is: wpid-20140331_173006.jpgA variety of items I picked up at this store called Tuesday Morning. *the nail polish came from a friend tho


L’Oreal Color Riche Balm #950 in “Come BY My Windows” – I like it but it’s a really light pink on me so it can only be worn as a base or as a lip gloss when I’m in the house and need something on my lips, like today.

Swatch without flash

Swatch without flash

Without a flash and the 2nd color is of the other lip color that I will get into next.)

Without a flash and the 2nd color is of the other lip color that I will get into next.)









The other lip color is that you can barely see is this one:

Milani HD Advancded Lip Color in #111 Cotton Candy

Milani HD Advancded Lip Color in #111 Cotton Candy

The only good thing about this one is that is smells like cotton candy and it’s actually the same color as the Color Riche. Other than that, it’s another lip gloss to be worn under a lipstick as a nice base.

In the front is the Revlon ColorStay Brow Enchancer in Light Brown and Champagne. It’s not that  great, actually I don’t know what it is but it isn’t a brow enhancer, lol. The darker side says, “Tinted Wax” and that’s exactly what it is. . .

Revlon Colorstay Brow Enhancer

Revlon Colorstay Brow Enhancer

I have yet to use it for anything really so it will be kept until a reason for it’s use come up or I toss it out.

The nail polish is ZOYA, a friend gave it to me from one of her beauty boxes (she always gives me the stuff that looks bad on her. ) It’s an okay polish, nothing special and like all off brands, it chips after one day with or without a base and top coat. But I love the color.

The white jar is one of my fav items yet, it’s ALMAY Moisturizing makeup removal pads: These things rock!! I love them because one tiny little thin pad does the trick. There are 120 in this bottle so I won’t run out anytime soon and for $2.99 it’s well worth it. They are also great for traveling and I think, a lot better than the plastic pack ones that can sometimes dry out easily.

VERDICT: Tuesday Morning is always a hit or miss with me  and this one, well, only half of the items worked but I spent $14 so not bad but still a waste of a few bucks.



Packing Makeup For A Trip


So next Tuesday I’m headed to DC to represent my school in DECA. We are staying a few blocks from the White House…. going on an Odyssey Dinner Cruise, touring,  and competing. This will be my first time on the East coast so I’m excited.

The problem has been… what do I pack for makeup? 

LOL women!!!

I decided that I wanted to stay neutral in the makeup.  More natural colors and easy application (although I added the creative me palette in case I want to get funky). Then I had to decide on which palettes to bring (eyiyiyi) then I decided that I’d perfer being eyeshadow pencils and chunky lip pencils (but threw in my fav nude lippies and a haute red for the dinner cruise) then I had to pick concealer…..liners….primer……etc.

The end result looks good. I don’t think its too much or too little and I have variety what shocked me is how much my collection has grown that I can pack 5 DAYS IN ADVANCE and put it away and it not hinder the next 5 days of my makeup application. LOL

But…. I’m ready for DC!

Lippies: MAC RiRi Woo/L’Oreal saucy and mystic mauves/ Inglot #410 / Sue Dewitt Cape Colony and Revlon Gentlemen Prefer Pink

Chunky lip pencils: Clinique heftiest hibiscus/Sephora Glossy Purple/Nicka K Satin Maxi in Mahogany/Bite in Tannin

Lip liners: Nicka K in burgundy, coffee, & dark purple

Eyeshadow Palettes: Sigma beauty in Flare/ Coastal Scents Creative Me 1/single size of Meet Matte in Matt Batali

Eye Shadow Sticks: Rimmel Scandaleyes in Blamed Blue/Nicka K Eye Light Crayon in purple, bronze, & brown and Shadow Tint in spiced rum

Mascara: H&M mega volume and Ulta plush drama (BEAT OUT THE OTHERS)

Concealer: Black Radiance concealer stick/ Black Radiance true complexion in #8014/ Maybelline dream fresh BB cream/ Maybelline dream liquid mousse in dark

Bronzer: Milani Tantastic (MY ALL TIME FAVORITE)

Elf eyeshadow kit
Josie Maran argan infinity oil
Sigma primer in provoke
Manna sheer glo shimmer lotion
Ukta double ended liner

Done! Lol I plan to do a post on NICKA K COSMETICS….I can’t get enough of her stuff.

What do you pack?

Mental Illness – Depression – Suicide…..A Personal Experience


Karyn Washington, creator of ForBrownGirls.com committed suicide. She was ONLY 22 years old.

Today’s post is dedicated to Forbrowngirls.com creator Karyn Washington, who at the tender age of 22, committed suicide. It’s said that she battled mental illness and depression and naturally, in the black community, she hid it like those like US do. We are told that having depression while being black is “a white people thing” and that we should just pray on it and medication is the devil. I’m a witness to that fucked ideology. The moment I’d mention an illness it’ll be “stop that white shit. You ain’t sick.” So I thought that being depressed was literally a white person’s problem so how could I have THEIR KIND of problem.

Sounds stupid right?

SURE DOES but it’s the truth for many African-American kids and how we were raised.

As a teen I struggled with self-hate and depression but with a drug addicted mother all I got was abuse and told to go to my room. I never knew what depression was or that I had it. I js thought I was crazy because I was called crazy. I remember when my mother found my suicide note and read it out loud with my sister while I sat in the bathtub, they laughed at me and called me a “stupid bitch.” I can never forget that moment although my mother (may she rest in peace) and my sister probably have no recollection of it ever happening. And why would they, it wasn’t THEIR dark hour, it was mine.

I’m here to SPEAK UP for Karyn, myself and others like us. Being African-American does not make us exempt from mental illness. Depression is not a “white people’s thing” it’s a human mental problem that can affect ANYONE and it is real. Medication is not the devil. Praying helps some but not everyone can get better with prayer.

Karyn is me and I’m crying just remembering the moment I locked myself in the bathroom and started to cut. I still have the scars on my arm that reminds me of how I let society and family determine my mental state to the point where I wanted to take my own life. The scars used to be so vivid, now they are 48 slashes on my forearm (that you can see when I post swatches yet I don’t care) that are fading into my skin tone. I see them still, as clear as if they never healed. I used to shame myself for being too coward to not have finished. Who does that?? A broken kid with no one to listen to her tell them that she needs help is who does that – You have no idea how that process fucks with you; seeing yourself begin to end your own life because you need help and you have no one to listen to you tell them that you feel “Strange inside.”

I AM KARYN WASHINGTON and I’m so sorry that she felt she had to kill herself.

I live with depression now. I fight it. I am stronger because I know I have it and it’s OK. I’m NOT CRAZY. Once I sought help I became better because now I know ME and once you understand YOUR depression you can survive it.

I was about 23 when I LAST attempted to take my life and I can never forget that day. I had tried to kill myself a total of 3 times in my life. I am almost 32 so I am happy to be here and I realize that I deserve to be here. Because no one wanted to help me, I helped myself and sought out help. I walked into a hospital one day crying, in tears and I told the nurse, “I want to kill myself but I don’t, I just can’t help the thoughts anymore. I need help.” She grabbed my arm, sat me down and took my information. She talked to me, told me of some options and then they kept me on watch in a room with a cop outside the door for hours. After that day I waited to call for a therapist appointment but when I did, I was afraid the first time I walked into her office. . .she was an African-American woman and I felt odd. Every look she gave me felt like a look from my mother, like she was shaming me. I stopped seeing her and waited years to see another one. It wasn’t until I took my son to see a family-therapist that I was told by his therapist that it wasn’t him who needed the help, it was me. I didn’t fight it, I started making my own appointments with her and that whole year was one of the best in my life. I opened up so much, I let go of so much, and I discovered that I was not alone.

When I began anti-depressants my aunt blamed the devil and said I just needed Jesus. She thinks that I need to stop “Owning an illness” calling it mine but I think she is wrong. Claiming it helped me to accept it and acceptance helped me to tackle it and being that I am not religious, I couldn’t see her views of, “Give it to God” because even those who give it a higher power submit to a lower medically powered individual who offers advice or prescriptions. SO I said NO to my aunt’s thoughts and knew that I needed medication and because of it I am balanced. I can feel the difference in my body, my friends can notice when I am off the meds just by how I act. NO, I don’t like taking them, but I know that if I want to continue living a healthy life then I need to. I see my therapist every week at 6pm like clockwork and every week I work through yet another horrible memory or feeling or some bullshit that I was stuck with as a kid to hold inside and it’s now manifesting it’s way into my normal everyday life fucking up how I live. It is a never-ending treatment but it is not the end of the world. I have boderline personality disorder. . . .and the moment I read the description of someone like that and it matched me to a T I almost puked. I felt sick inside to think that, OMG I AM CRAZY!! But no. . .not crazy just not equipped to deal with the issues I am facing because I was only taught to sweep it under the rug and pray about it.

We need to quit hiding illness in the black community because it’s deemed “wrong” and we are not strong. SHEEEEIIIIIIIIIIIIIT, I am strong as hell, I have been to my lowest level and have risen to a higher LEVEL with more levels to go. There is nothing weak about an illness!





PARENTS: Stop shaming your children for an illness they cannot control. Help them. Take them to a Medical Doctor. Learn about their depression. Love them. Teach them to love and let them know that its OK. Do not call them crazy. Don’t leave them alone to deal with something much bigger than them. Two of my close friends Lauren and Maria, in my darkest hours offered to go to therapy with me. Hearing their support made me even stronger because I knew I was not alone so do not leave your children alone and make them wait for friends to be their support system.





and I speak #FORBROWNGIRLS like us.

Will you speak up for them and yourself too!?


Coastal Scents CREATIVE ME PALETTE: Primary Beauties!!!



I’ve been waiting to buy one of their palettes for a while but I could never decide which one to get.  I saw swatches of this one and decided that this would be the one I purchase from coastalscents.com.

So straight to the point, is it all good or all bad?

It’s purty good!


  • Size: It’s a nice compact size that can travel with you on a daily and not be too bulky, sleek and thin
  • Price: $14.95 I believe shipping was $7 so $20 which isn’t bad for a palette with such vivid colors
  • Pigment: well this is very pigmented and very colorful. See for yourself below:
I decided to put all the colors on one eye, lol. I was in a playful mood but as you can see, it’s very pigmented on my dark skin. (actually I think I don’t have the lighter yellow on but I have most of them)


  •  The pots are removable so you can add whatever colors you like if you don’t like these and the pots online are super cheap too, less than a few bucks and some are only a $1.
  • Staying Power: This has a good staying power. I had to wipe it off really good with my makeup wipes to get the color off.

If I had a bad thing to say it’ll be that although they are pigmented, they are messy. Lots of droppage. You definitely have to blow on the brush before applying to your face.

Other than that. I love it.

Below are some more photos and swatches
This is without flash and below is with flash.

This is with the flash. As you can see, all of the colors show up well. It’s about two finger swipes on each color. Below are the swatches without a flash.